One solution !

Have you ever wondered if there were no problems? After thinking alot I finally stood still on one thought that is —

Well first we would have to establish what “PROBLEM” it really is! I believe that there is a universal problem, that is capable of creating MANY MORE PROBLEMS but we all have different ways of approaching it. Different PEOPLE for example have different outlooks on it. Some have a hundred different versions of it. For instance – EXCUSES.

And the problem is the

UNSAID ANSWER

which means: we mortal beings are so self-absorbed that we are always attracted to ourselves.

CONFUSING AIN’T IT!?

Attraction is so strong that we just wish to hear the answers we want irrespective of who says it!

For instance I myself have found many strangers comforting in my hard times just because they say what I wish to hear.

Now many people find GOD comforting.

YES. Of course it’s comforting to know there is someone looking after us.

However even people who love us are looking after us yet we tend to scream at them.

BUT NEVER AT GOD

Now let’s scroll back up and come back to the topic we are satisfied with the almighty because we don’t have direct contact.

Even if he is opposing what we have in mind we are unaware of it and this is what is comforting.

We can believe in whatever the hell we want.

The consequence of it if the other person is able to put his own brain and answer will be what we have now around us

FIGHTS

BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS

FAMILY PROBLEMS

WORK ISSUES

ETC.

We should stop thinking after putting a question to someone as question is meant to be answered by the person whom it is directed to.

Just a few seconds wait.

That’s all it takes.

BUT NOT IGNORING THE FACT THAT HUMAN MINDS DOESN’T REALLY STOP.

SO,

Here’s a more scientific answer:

After you ask a question start counting in there fastest speed you can and reach 100 and repeat.

As human brain is only capable to efficiently do one work it is likely to not think of conclusions.

Also

if your conclusion is set from before then you make ask the person to justify their answer.

MAY BE A SMALL DEBATE.

I do this one myself and have always worked.

It’s kind of very logical.

And perhaps there are things where you can’t do anything and you are confused then just do the finger trick.

Assign two fingers the confusion and ask a stranger to choose

and then let that be on DESTINY.

If you can believe in the unsaid words of a non-existing entity then I think you must give a try believing in the words well-spoken by a mortal who are said to have the highest level of intelligence in the animal kingdom with the proper brain analysis.

Try it for yourself

THINGS MAY EVEN WORK OUT BETTER THAN YOU EVER THOUGHT!

DONT BE A LAST MINUTE WORKER

Planning isn’t what everyone likes or does I personally am a huge fan of planning not that it was inborn it’s just I saw way too many advantages and experienced much stuff.

Also evn if there is a person who doesn’t plan at all he still does plan he plans on big events. Belonging from an Indian background I’ll state an example like wise rather it’s applicable to any person or what do ever nationality.
On a wedding -marraige. Why is the huge event all planned and sorted and why do we freak out if it’s out of order and if planned properly things go great. So why can’t we plan the little things dont they matter.

If a wedding is important isn’t our life important? Is it so difficult to plan out our life and make sure it goes better than how it would go otherwise.

Yes ofcourse sometimes some lives are great without planning well that’s just the hit and try method it might b good in short run but so will b the losses so why risk it? When the whole answer is in front of you.
If a man can manage and organise a whole wedding then why not just once think about a lil thing.
Like a kid should organise or make a proper studying schedule not timetable. No time boundations but a schedule of how much to finish till what date.
Or a office person keep a huge calendar mark deadlines and work accordingly.

A calendar is a must.
It pretty much takes 5-10 minutes to plan out and saves you so much of tension time hardwork, sleep ( most important)

We know the answer !!

PLAN OUT ANYTHING and EVERYTHING CAUSE IF YOU DONT START NOW SOMEDAY yours EVERYTHING will be NOTHING!

Which character do we wanna be : ourselves ? Umm NAH!

Do we even know what is it that we are doing?
perhaps we do , which I Strongly disagree but yah okay for the sake of those people who think they are smarter and know it all.
I personally am a very divert able person ( if that’s even a word) .. Yah yah my English sucks !
So I m easily influenced but mind it not by those who are around me cause I have built up myself better than them.
But when it comes to those series characters and shit. Of course it’s stupid and no one wants to admit that but honestly I know all of us have changed and tried being like the cool character of the show we are watching and Also as soon as the show finishes we change ourselves back.

On one hand you take out faults in others and not even bother to look into yourself. Then how is it that every time you are changing yourself ? are you not happy with the person you are ? or is it just that you clearly know nothing at all.

It is actually our fault. We all know its our fault. WE DON’T ADMIT IT BUT OUR subconscious KNOWS THE BEST.

Oh it’s so true mommy doesn’t know the best our subconscious knows the best.
I’ll have to appreciate myself on that though !

Not diverting away any further from the topic so here it is

I happen to be friends with someone special I freak out so much and I have so many mood swings and everything messed up is all my mess
So I finally agreed that ” I am a fool and I know nothing and I approached that special friend and have actually promised that I won’t ever try and impose things on others and I shall wait and think about others too
And be kind ( not that I am not but when I am cranky it’s pure crank talking )

Now I am someone who also thinks before I speak not to people I know
So I m gonna stop that cause
1. It’s highly annoying
2. You over think
3. Assumption
4. Self concluded wrong answers

And this leads to low self esteem
And making the situation much more worse than it actually is in real.

So people please it’s awesome that you don’t know what you are doing!
Yes but in career you should but for stupid stuff no. Don’t think how will it end think what all amazing things u can do the next second and probably this way it might never have to end. Anything ! Just add one more thing

NO ASSUMPTIONS
NO MATTER WAT!
Love yourself correct yourself the only way the world seem brighter is when we are right enough to provide the light to everyone around. So much light that evn the dark demon such as voldamort can’t do much.

So do you still wanna know what are you doing or what should u say to someone or shall u or not …… This goes on.
IF THERE’S ANY SUCH THING IN ANYONE JUST GET UP AND DO WHAT YOU WNAT TO RIGHT IN THAT MOMENT CAUSE ONCE THE MOMENT GOES YOU WOULDN’T WANT TO LAMENT!

SUCH KINDS OF PEOPLE.

THere are people who suck.

no matter what you do no matter where u go such people are always gonna surround you. me especiallly i dont know whats it in me that attracts them to me. i mostly get to be the centre to attention not in a good way. now that could aslo mean loosing reputation. but one ruining of reputation is the one where u ruin it yourself and the other is the one which others do it for you.

it just so happens and i get close to people and for some or the other reason we part ways. i alone dont but we part ways. maybe i get too close to them.

LESSON 001 dont get too close to anyone.

so for some reason or the other i was seen with different people. which made people believe taht i keep changing and ditching people. which i can understnd. An untrained eye may make mistakes. never has it ever hurt so much because i always had people who loved me and trusted me for they knew me. its always such a relief when your friends atleast u can be sure about them to never ditch you.

its just so happen to have happeneed this time that one of my friend and i had fought but then we just sorted out two days back and now i find out why did her behaviour towards me change its not much her fault cause people have the power of manipulation the only mistake she did was not approaching me. approaching me could have solved so many problems. but never mind . people who bitch about someone adn then go become best friends with them are the ones hwo are actually bitching. and manipulating . i dont understnd how can people trust such people. my mistakes are huge first taht the ones who are manipulating i had been once close to them and then we parted ways. again we not me. ,

yet its me to be blamed that i keep changing ppl. and let me tell you the sociaety is not bad its people like these in the sociaty who cahnges the entire mind set of people. such people have no other work than to butt in themselves evrywhere.

thsi is nothing new for me. in hostel i have been blamed to be a lesbian and the entire school knew about it there my friedns had more reason to be away from me but they decided to tryst me and stay with me.

and just now when i was telling the classs incident to one of my hostel friends . she happen to tell me that 4.5 years back a girl who i never ever have spoken to told her that i was using her and i will leave her and shit. but my friend decided to trust me and just told that random girl stay out of it and she continued talking to me and its been 4.5 years we yet are really close. i dont know how can people deciede wats gonna happen in future. ? taht too someone elses future? have they ever looked into there past ever ? or thought abouyt the kind of people they are.

many of them even accused me of being clever and making plans it did hurt listening to these words but what hurt more was that i am not that clever wish i was. i am just taht innocent honest kid who is mature enough to forgive andnot take revenge back and thats what makes such people open up there mouth wide enough cause no ones coming back of them. if i start taking revenge none of them will ever talk.but then they would fear it . but then i am shut i dont do much  casue its childish to act this way.

i wish for once, people could hold on and put their own brain and figure stuff out rather believeing these imposters.

cant we just do this much.?

dont we have our brain to put ?

cant we even trust our friends and just be with them no matter what. not necessary you have to fight for them just dont believ the shit people talk untilll something bad actually happens with you.

if u like someone doesnt mean u like evryone our behaviour changes with different human beings. we alll are different so what, if it didnt work with someone why would i part ways with someone i like ? with someone things were going perfect? y? just put in your own head. there would be a reason for parting ways maybe with you there wont be a reason adn we could count on each other till the longest time we can last for.

IT also means that even if people come and go. you just dont have to give up on new peole just assuming things to not work.they sure can and they sure will. like i said earlier no two people are same . so much so that even our behaviour with two people is not the same .

STOP LLISTENING TO WHAT OTHERS CAUSE MAYBE THEY ARE BEING TREATED THIS WAY FOR A REASON.  TRUST IN YOUR OWN EYES AND YOUR OWN JUDGMENT.

such people will never change.there could be few reasons for them to be this way .the reasons  could be :

1. they are jealous and wants all the attention.
2. they cant bear the fact that you are happy or taht you have better friends.
3. some just need a topic to talk about
4. some wants to be leaders and influence their head into others.

its  said ” SOME BECOME LEADERS BY THEIR GREAT DEEDS OTHERS WANT TO BECOME BY MANIPULATING OTHERS AGAINST THE GOOD ONE SO TAHT THEY HAVE EVERYONE.”

WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS THE MOST PRIVILEDGED ones GETS THIS LIFE I AM SURE NOT TO WASTE IT ON SUCH PEOPLE AND LIVE WITH THOSE WHO ARE SENSIBLE AND KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING. 

PEOLE MATURE AT DIFFERENT AGES. I HAVE THEY STILL HAEV SOME TIME AND I AM SURE THEY WILL FEEL THEMSELVES STUPID ONCE THEY REALISE WHAT FOOLISHNESS THEY DID AND FOR NOW ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT THEY ARE LOOSING THE FRIENDS WHO MIGHT HAVE LASTED A LIFETIME.

SCHEDULES , ARE THEY EASY TO FOLLOW ?

“You will never find time for anything. If you want time you must make it.” – Charles Buxton

TIME , WHO NEVER WAITS FOR ANYONE AND STILL WE HAVE IT IN PLENTY BUT YET WE COMPLAIN WE HAVE NO TIME. SO WHEN IS IT THAT WE ARE LYING ?

TIME NEVER WAITS 

Time doesn’t wait for anyone. no one at all. yet there are people who are keeping pace with time. they  sure are no super humans that just happens on televison. But what is it that keeps them on pace and others slouching back into their couch with the idiot box always on and complaininh that they get no time. isnt it clear whats holding them back. watching television or doing what you like isnt bad but doing anything a lot bad , worst rather.

now this brings up the topic of time management !!!

TIME MANAGEMENT

we complain that we have no time. now lemme tell u how you can make loads or time.

make the rows according to the number of hours in a day. and then columns by the number of week days or working days. so you will now have many columns and rows and now those are the hours you have in a week. now the next thing you should is just fill the hours you are busy. fill it with black color. for instance if u  got school 5 days in a week then just color black all the school hours. or tuition or sports or family dinner or other meals. now are the no. of hours you are still left with after attending all the important first priority work. now just write all the other stuff like study times or tv or watever the purpose is that you have of making the time table . and evn after fillinh all those hours i bet u still will be left with quite a few hours rather too many.

NOTHING IS SO MUCH DIFFICULT AS U MAKE IT.

i technically did this for a month and i am about to complete the entire syllabus on 31st. 8 days before the exam. so i just did a lil lil each day so i wont have to take all the tension and burden all right before the exam.

and now its a HURRAY time !!!!

🙂 🙂 🙂

try this out and more clear explaination check out this link — https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-E8gqBq1OI

         and then lemme know were u lying all this time or were u just not                                                             TRYING ?

WHAT DO WE WANT ? do we know it ? are we trying to know it ?

WHAT ARE WE? are we what we didnt want ? or are we exactly how we wanted to be?

DO PEOPLE REALLY ACCEPT US THE WAY WE ARE? 

ARE WE ORIGINAL WHEN WE SAY THIS IS WHO I AM ?

ARE WE PROBABLY LYING WHEN WE SAY ALL OF THE ABOVE?

well its a tough thing to know or find out. I am no genius but just a being who has her opinions. As i went on writing these questions down i actually felt like what a delusion i am in. what i feel is a lie. what i understnd is also a lie. what i say to others is none other but a lie.

we want people to accept us as we are ! but do we know who we actually are? its been ages like i m 17 years old its been 17 years literally 17 and there has been a huge transformation not only physically but also mentally now many of these  because of the hormonal changes but even then we dont change into what we want to change into though we claim that THIS IS WHO I  M THIS IS WHO I WANTED TO BE.

but honestly look inside and ask yourself how many people have been important to u in your life?. and how many times did u have to compromise? there are 1/10 ppl who actually are lucky enough not to compromise.

COMPROMISE IS ITSELF  A HUGE CHANGE THAT WE DEVELOP IN OURSELVES.

and ofcourse if there have been so many people then ofcourse they would have left u thats y they r so =many. now when they left they just actually left an edition of u which they liked. not what you are and eu cant get back to who you were cause apparently u forgot who were cause u were mayb too much into the person that u didnt mind changing yourself. and then new ones come they mould u a lil more.

we are like clays. we just dont admit it. people mould us however they want atlast we do come out to be something but depends are in the hands of the right person casue only a professional can make brillant stuff out of clay a stupid kid would use it cause believe it or everyone touches it, touches us, uses it , uses us.and leaves us in whatever condition they want.

MAY THE RIGHT PERSONS HAND IS WHERE THE CLAY  NEED TO  BE IN THE HANDS OF SOMEONE WHO VALUES THE CLAY.

MAYBE THATS WHTA WE CALL THE ONE WE LOVE THE ONE WHO FITS RIGHT IN THE PUZZLE. THE ONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO UNDO THE RUINS THAT OTHERS HAVE DONE,

my point is we actually are whta ppl make us. we probably wont ever again feel like real.so stop saying things like:

” he’ll accept me how i am if he truely loves me” cause he isnt accepting u he’s accepting someone one else not u. he’s nice enough to handle someone elses version of u . so stop complainig.

STOP THROWING WHAT COMES TO U EASILY THAT MIGHT BE THE BEST U CAN EVER GET. THOSE MIGHT BE THE RIGHT HANDS.

the harder its to get the more u compromise the more u change the worse is that person for u .

ALL IN ALL ITS JUST MERE INFATUATION ITS NO LOVE.

just get real .

WHY?

beacause u gotta live happy.

BRAIN NEEDS A LITTLE MOULDING!

DEFINING YOURSELF ANYTHING 100% IS NEAR-SIGHTED AND ALSO CLOSE MINDED.

2 days back i got into talking about homosexuals to one of my friends and i really didnt know i could defend them to this level. ‘u really gave this thing a thought’ was what she said.

Belonging from an all girls residential boarding school ( cool saying it long ). i personally believe that its pretty sane to be a homosexual not that i am one BUT i am pretty much with it.

NOW when i say so i mean it and i clearly have put in alot of thought by now. i dont know about every single person but i’ll clearly meantion how i feel about it. after being in a hostel for 6 years. i was ofcourse close  to girls. evn now i cant trust guys or have that deep connection with guys. its like relationships here are like friendships there. and i also feel if people try it here, this is possible. no connection can be stronger than the connection of the same gender. and why i say so is because :

1. we are more open to them as deep down we are sure for them to undertsnd.

2. we know what they want as both of us wants pretty much the same thing for instance girls like to be pampered and also there are many things that are same in many males and females separately.

3. if we talk physically then there isnt much problem cause ofcourse we understnd our body so its no big deal understnding the others body with the same parts.

4. the emotional connection is whole lot different.

so if day scholars literally try then i am pretty sure they can feel the same. everyone in a hostel has that someone only that some like me tag it as a best friend and others get intimate. i also feel not that lesbians dont like men they do rather i would say their body parts but only that they have no emotional connection and girls especially are more drawn to people who understands them.

Yeah and I also think just cause we have that mental thing towards girls and the space is occupied we can’t give that space to a guy as i said i cant feel the same with a guy even if we are friends i  deep friendship with a gal is way different. its been over 6 months and i yet cant feel that security and owness with a guy mayb cause its taken u know i cant fit in more ppl on the same chair.

Also its like the gay thing lasts longer than the straight relationships in an average. maybe cause we are so tired looking for the perfect guy with all the traits that we would like in our husband. AND also if u notice evry girl searches for a few traits that are actually assigned to a girl like understanding, caring, again not that guys dont do such things but girls are still not so satisfied mayb cause they want a little more they want that connection.

i am not against straights either i myself m one but honestly i really feel its important people get their rights. at some point i also feel they shouldnt take permissions and evn if they did the goverment should spontaneously agree to it. isnt all the development and human development for the people of the nation. its like we are doing what we think we should without thinking about the most important part of their life that is i dont let them choose them their life partner. from what way then are they happy? homosexuals are pretty same as straight.

adam and eve were the first ones cause that was necessary for the future for the formation of future. it no where was said that two women and men cant  LOVE.

I AM TIRED OF LISTENING TO ” GAYS AND LESBIAN” WORDS CANT WE JUST TREAT THEM NORMAL? 

CAN WE NOT ASK THEM TO TRY WITH THE OTHER SEX AND NOT TELL THEM THEY R MISTAKEN ? rather why do nt we try with the same sex ? how can we be sure without evn trying ? atleast most homosexuals have give it a try. 

AND THEN WE  CALL OURSELVES THE MOST INTELLIGENT MAMMALS. YEAH RIGHT !

WHY AM I SO BLIND ?

MILLIONS OF EYES CAN’T CAN SEE, YET WHY AM I SO BLIND ?

above are the famous lyrics of the awesomest band ever BEE GEES !!

poetry and lyrics can have a much intense and deeper meaning than we think they have. Thats why today i considered giving a thought to this specific line.now the actual lyrics are the non cut ones which is ofcourse obvious but also i cut can’t cause i somehow  prefer singing it “cant”.

why ?

the line says much more by adding an apostrophe and a “T” . its like i am the one who is lucky enough to have eyes and yet i choose to not see the wrong.. not just that guess what our eyes see what is interpreted by our brains. so the question is that

is it our brain at fault or our eyes?

well lets see we encounter very a poor child dragged beaten by some guys. They have the nerve to do it in the day light and also in the middle of the town. why?? are they not humans do they not have the feeling of fear in them? whats in them thats not in us? they have so much courage to do a bad thing and we have none to do a good one. what are we? in simple languge we are humans. but in a much specialised way we are homo sapiens successors of homonids, someone who started out the most intelligent by introducing the precision grip etc. and also we are the only ones in this hollow area who has the power to scrutinise and analyse stuff. to come out with a logic and reasoning. now again logic is that power whiich can be used both ways the negative and also positive.

negative : we use some lame logic and think assume and conclude that the poor guy had done something wrong.

positive : we ask the guys whats happening and whats he done so bad?

IF WE SEE WE ALWAYS HAVE TWO CHOICES IN LIFE.

the road not taken by – robert frost 

is a clear assurance of convincing us that there are always two choices. its on us which one we use.whether we follow the herd or become a 2 year old again and learn to walk on ourselves. as soon as we start walking on our legs we are happy more than us people around us a happy but give it a though are we really walking on our legs or are we still dependent ?

according to me we are still very much dependent. we were the ones who fought for independence cause then we had no right to speech and etc.

DO WE STILL SPEAK WHAT WE SHOULD OR WHAT WE FEEL LIKE? EVN IF WE DO DOES OUR SOCIETY ALLOW US TO ? ARE WE STILL OPEN MINDED? 

ARE OUR EYES ANY GOOD??ACTION CAN CHANGE ALL ( NOT THE SHOE PLZ 😛 )

I FEEL INSECURE AND THAT EVERYONE HATES ME.

JUST IN RECENT DAYS I FEEL SO AWFULLY VULNERABLE AND FEEL TARGETED BY PEOPLES SILLY THOUGHTS!
SO HERE IS WHAT I THOUGHT!
Also this is after combining a lot of study from net and my head.

Does everyone really hate you? You said almost not everyone. It means there are people who care about you. Do you have friends outside your class? Does your family love you? Even if there is single person in this whole world who can talk to you , share your feelings,do you need a herd of people to talk with? Lets assume you don’t have even a single person in this world who doesn’t like you it means not even you love yourself. Love and respect start from within. People hate you or (say) you feel that they hate you, it’s because you care more than you need to. 
Usually these kind of feelings come from the fact you are scared of people. You give importance to the people and what they say more than it deserves. Remember, 
Bliss is in the detachment.

Learn to love yourself
This is the best thing you can do to yourself. The day you’ll start truly loving yourself, you won’t be the same person again. You’ll become more confident, more lively, and you’ll start caring less because you won’t need anyone else to be happy. People may judge you based on their prejudices, but the only important thing is how you judge yourself. If you know that you are good for something, make that thing your strength. Live on your strengths and feed on others’ weaknesses. If you are a fish, don’t be sad if you’re not able to climb a tree. Go find a pond. 

Learn to detach and care less
Hate is like food served before you on your table. If you don’t like it don’t eat it. No one can feed it to you forcefully. Open your own lunch box and fill your tummy. Don’t start eating from others’ plate just because you are getting it free. 

Let the world come to you, don’t seek too much
Lower your expectations. Everything which comes to you effortlessly is something you really deserve, or is made for you. Don’t expect every person to be nice to you. If no one hates you it means you are not on the right path. Keep doing what you like, try to to excel in that. If you are the finest in your skill, people will come to you. Skill is money in this world. So work on honing yourself. Don’t keep wandering with a half baked version of you in hope of something.

Learn to open up and talk
Know how to treat your friends and foes same. Know how to be diplomatic. Be good with words. Learn to take stand. The more you’ll talk to your haters, either they’ll stop hating you, or they won’t come in your way. Talk sensibly, sometimes people’ll provoke you but say only what is sensible and makes sense. Don’t talk for the sake of it.

Learn to take help
Let go of ego, shyness and hesitation. If you are weak in something take help from someone who knows it. Someone’ll help you asyou are not the only good person in this world. Learn to collaborate. It’s easier to help others than getting help. There are chances that you’ll be rejected few places. Learn to accept rejection. It is the harshest truth of the world but to be successful in your life you need to have this skill.

Learn to smile
Learn to smile genuinely. Learn to smile in pain. Learn to smile without expecting anything in return. Learn to forgive your haters and smile on them. When you smile, your well wishers become happy and your haters get burnt

Well and also consider the fact that we are so stupid to consider that the other person bitching about us is always right . next to God!
I mean give me a break seriously !!! U trust their ideas , opinion more they are same age as u ! Rather less maturer to have though such stuff.

Somewhere in the world all these social society doesn’t matter cause they know the main purpose for our life is to study and make ourselves capable to have more than others think we can and most importantly to atleast thank those who believe in us – our parents.

DO WE GENUINELY FORGET TO BE HAPPY ABOUT PEOPLE LOVING US OR IS IT THAT WE ALWAYS WANT WHAT WE CANT GET?

USE WORDS , USE MOUTH BUT IN A GOOD WAY!

we all got lips, tongue and teeth which altogether is known as mouth , which we humans very well use it.

but the question is how do we use it? in the way its suppose to be used or the way we like to use it?

TODAY _  while i was coming back from school i just was walking back and my bag was hell heavy. Being a girl in india its said that its not safe in india for a girl to talk to strangers. IS THAT SO ? i dont oppose but neither do i agree entirely. so  my shoulders were killing me and FYI it is summer season in here and know what it was 2 pm .while walking i desperately wanted someone to come and carry me with them but DUH -HA. you gotta do something yourself nothing really comes on a silver platter in 21st century.so i saw a 15 year old guy some poor guy sitting by his bicycle, so   i went to him and asked him if i could borrow his bike and if he could be kind enough to follow me i just lived near by nut not near for me as i am not a usual walker and i am fat .. lol..  WHICH I MUST SAY WAS NOT WHAT EVRYONE WOULD DO !

REASONS BEHIND:

1. SOCIAL CAST. i know this concept isnt that active officially but mentally it is. 

2. GENDER ; I AM NOT SUPPOSE TO DO IT. i mean seriously who said we are not suppose to being a girl is something i am much proud of. SERIOUSLY. 

he did so and i was so sos os so so sso  GLAD,

so here my main motive is how if we use our mouth and just ask ASK FOR ONCE. people are nice. they are ready to help but theres only one flaw U GOTTA ASK !

on the other hand a girl in my class never really discusses anything much she always goes on her highest volume evn if someone is just genuinly discussing something. either we speak unnecesasrily or speak kind words.

DONT SPEAK IF U CANT SPEAK SWEET.

its not much to ask. people are getting ruder and ruder. i understnd people have troubles and yah i have often heard people say that earlier generations . things for them were much easier . or were they?

AS A MATTER OF FACT YES THEY WERE EASIER BUT FOR US. for them it was difficult as it was new to them. how still we havnt adapted to somethings evn they hadnt.

WE GOTTA STOP MAKING EXCUSES AND DO SOMETHING FOR OURSELVES.